Possible Responses To A Bully Say Nothing: It may seem like the best thing is to say NOTHING and hope the bully will leave you alone. This RARELY happens. Attack Back: It might also be tempting to lash out and give the bully “a taste of their own medicine.” But this can backfire and lead to even worse bullying. Be Clear & Assertive: Without name calling or other hurtful language, tell the bully to leave you alone.